You Decide Your Vibe

  'Your tribe is what decides your vibe' 

There's this saying I've been hearing. It's a little confusing because there is something that bothered me, so I started exploring this phrase. During my exploration, I found another saying that caught my eye.

  'Your vibe is what attracts a tribe.'

Two opposing viewpoints, who should we remember?  This question is an individual expression this is what comes to my mind.

How? I may seem feminist, although this subject is addressed to everyone, no matter who they are. 

Tribe deciding your vibe to me appears patriarchal and underestimated.

Why must we limit ourselves to a tribe? You make your own choices and people around you, so how can other people describe your value!

It's like a group of people who represent you as opposed to you. A notion, none of us would want. Owning yourself and seeing your worth is a form of self-love, who would not like to show themselves within their perspective and beliefs.

These two sayings behold a clear line of judgments and opinions. As to how we still allow stereotypical topics to cloud our view.

However, the word vibe of its own is a powerful emotion. Or should I say that it is an atmosphere around us that is different from everyone else? And you make your aura, so how can a tribe decide your vibe?

Don't you think that you decide your vibe that draws the tribe! Not someone else who decides your vibe.

(Share your thoughts below on what you have to say about this point of view.)